The Awakening.......!!!

I am Namita. (name changed) I lost my father when I was 18. I have a brother who is elder to me. I have completed my teacher training programme and worked in School as a teacher.

After a few years of experience, members of my family forced me to get married. In April 2018 I tied the knot with the person chosen by my family. In the beginning life was very pleasant and smooth going. We went out in the evenings, had food outside, met friends and relatives. I felt very happy and thanked my mother for choosing me the right person for life.

As days passed, my husband started behaving strangely and showing his real character but I did not change my attitude towards him. I tolerated everything and I lived with him. Then one fine day, like bolt from the blue, I got a call from a lady that my husband has an extra marital relationship with her for the last 7 years. Then I was shocked and felt very bad but even then, I did not change my attitude and I loved him sincerely despite the fact which I was told on telephone and continued to live with him.

Then he started punishing me with physical torture as well as mental torture. I told him that I was pregnant thinking with this news he would stop torturing me but it was different. He tortured me more and more and I had a miscarriage. But in spite of all these atrocities I stayed with him and continued working in the school After some time, he forced me to leave the job but begged him to allow me to continue in the school but again, he started to give lot of mental and physical torture to me.

Then finally I decided to resign and came back to my mother. I did not lose heart nor did I worry about my past. I then decided to stand on my own legs with Education “the greatest asset” my parents had given me. I thought to myself why I should waste my life for a person who has no feelings, it is not worth.

I got a good job in a school and continuing as teacher, enjoying with little children, forgetting all my past, dedicating my life for these children who are the future of our country. Thank you Secret Sharz for providing some space for persons like me to share all our problems with full confidence.

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