Hey, guys I have no great introduction for myself a normal guy getting to beat out from the odds.
Grew up in a disturbed and not a so loved family, abused, hurt, broken and bullied was the kind of tale every day. Grew up amongst a lot of challenges as people started following paths without knowledge and my interest, I blindly jumped into one without any guidance and support not knowing what my interest was and I didn’t have any skills as the others did. Nobody tried to talk and speak to me in those days when I was growing. These challenges were surely hurting and mentally disturbing since people are keenly and openly talking about it these days after we lost a dear one, which has given me a great sense of shock and grief and I’m trying to get over it. Had a failed relationship and went into depression for years was also the case.
What I’m trying to convey to everyone is amongst all these odds there is a lesson, or an insight hiding behind it for us to understand that everything would not come to us very easily and requires a lot of patience and support As we grow life becomes hard, but we should not lose hope for there is always a better tomorrow. Learn from these things, talk to people understand what’s wrong, comfort the person who’s in pain and agony for our country takes mental health on a very low grade, it’s okay to talk about it to the person you trust.
Remember the pain, today you have felt there is something good and nice going to happen there will be a person who you will meet, who listens to you and appreciate you. Few people have truly helped me in my journey.
Secret Sharz is doing an exceptional good job by reaching out to people in distress and in need for persons like me who was a victim of mental health and abuse. Communication among your family friends or closed and loved ones is very important I believe it’s the strongest weapon one could ever have. Remember what the legend had said before he left the world. ‘You are not Alone’.
It’s been 2 years since I started going to college. I am a person who is around you all and makes friends with everyone. I am a normal human being just as anyone. You will never know my pain until you are my best friend. Until that time good luck in finding me.
I am Neha (Name Changed) from Gujarat. I was born and raised in family of 6 children and I am the 2nd. From a young age I was made to learn all the chores of a woman to cook, to sweep, to go for shopping to take care of a man and a lot of others. I was sent to a school thankfully till my 6th standard and then I had to leave because there was no one to take care of my siblings at home and mom could not do all the work at home. I was not enjoying the work but then I had to do it.
When I was about the age of 10 my classmates bullied me, they were making fun of me because I was fat and was not able to run or play outdoor games. I got addicted to smoking and alcohol at a very young age. I was put out of 2 schools in my 8th after which I completed 8 to 10 in 2 other schools.
